Prior to ripping out the wires of relationships, we could check to see if patience and forgiveness are connected in our own heart.

It’s good to look inside our heart—to check the obvious first—even when it feels as if all our problems are caused by others. —David C. McCasland

I’ll check within my own heart first,
The obvious to see,
That faults I find in others
Are really faults in me. —D. De Haan

this is so true. seeking God's will in my life was more a out look searching for things that are external. and today's daily bread devotion reminded me, i should do some soul searching, look inside my heart and check what's obvious rather than to look outward for something obscure. hoping God will show me some sign however small. I should check the condition fo my heart whether there are any issues that are obviously wrong or need to be brought before God.

And i somehow know, i could be more patient, i could be more forgiving.